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# I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality

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The revised and expanded third edition of the bestselling guide to understanding borderline personality disorder—with advice for communicating with and helping the borderline individuals in your life. After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I Hate You—Don’t Leave Me now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual abuse, post-traumatic stress syndrome, ADHD, and eating disorders. Both pharmacological and psychotherapeutic advancements point to real hope for success in the treatment and understanding of BPD. This expanded and revised edition is an invaluable resource for those diagnosed with BPD and their family, friends, and colleagues, as well as professionals and students in the field, and the practical tools and advice are easy to understand and use in your day-to-day interactions with the borderline individuals in your life.

Review: Borderline Society! How current culture and practices affect our mental health. - I bought this at the suggestion of Prof.Dr. Anil Kumar of "Manasa", the Head of Psychiatry at Ernakulam Medical College. This is a great book, and apart form seeing the Borderline Personality as an individual issue, the authors have highlighted it as a societal issue in Chapter 4, titled "The Borderline Society", explaining how our current culture and practices and outlook along with expectations can affect our mental health in a negative way and can make us sick. It explains how child abuse, increasing divorces, the frequent moves associated with work or otherwise, and the permissive child-rearing practices are creating a society with more individuals who are sick and can limit the "progress". Highly recommended for the lay person and professionals!
Review: Holistic book on BPD - Best book on BPD I have ever read. BPD has been dealt with holistically.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
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| Best Sellers Rank | #21,883 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #11 in Psychopathology #406 in Health, Fitness & Nutrition #1,819 in Personal Transformation |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 2,308 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Borderline Society! How current culture and practices affect our mental health.
*by D***N on 27 May 2025*

I bought this at the suggestion of Prof.Dr. Anil Kumar of "Manasa", the Head of Psychiatry at Ernakulam Medical College. This is a great book, and apart form seeing the Borderline Personality as an individual issue, the authors have highlighted it as a societal issue in Chapter 4, titled "The Borderline Society", explaining how our current culture and practices and outlook along with expectations can affect our mental health in a negative way and can make us sick. It explains how child abuse, increasing divorces, the frequent moves associated with work or otherwise, and the permissive child-rearing practices are creating a society with more individuals who are sick and can limit the "progress". Highly recommended for the lay person and professionals!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Holistic book on BPD
*by R***A on 21 August 2025*

Best book on BPD I have ever read. BPD has been dealt with holistically.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Insightful
*by A***A on 2 November 2024*

Useful for families dealing with loved ones having BPD

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